We are used to saying, ‘God is Love’ and in modern times we have emphasised the covenant relationship with God through Jesus as being initiated by God out of love. But the word love is not all that easy to understand. St Ignatius says, “it expresses itself in deeds rather than words”. If that is true then one of the deeds that always expresses love is hospitality. 

Over the years I have noticed how the spirit thrives in a parish when there is a real effort to welcome all. Hospitality builds relationships and this can be so life-giving for those who are new to an area or community or are feeling lonely. In short hospitality transforms both individuals and community. So it doesn’t take an expert to conclude how important this gift is for Vincentians. 

In tikanga Māori hospitality to a visitor is vital to the life of the marae.  That is why you can’t go onto one unless you are formally welcomed with what is called the ‘Powhiri’. This concludes with the Hongi, the pressing of noses together: Hōmai tōu iho, kia whakakotahi tō taua wairua: give me your nose that our spirits might be one. There is a  also saying among Māori: “Tangata takahi manuhiri, he marae puehu”: “if the visitor is insulted, the marae becomes contaminated.”